Self-Help Books:
Women's Sexual Health

Better, more complete medical information on women’s sexual health is increasingly available.Continue reading Women's Sexual Health Essay»


The diversity of women’s sexualities is celebrated in a number of the books in this section; there is a wealth of material on lesbian and bisexual and solo sexuality.

Featured Books: The Multi-Orgasmic Woman
Featured Books: Sex Matters for Women
Featured Books: The Survivor's Guide to Sex



Best Seller: Becoming Orgasmic
Best Seller: Reclaiming Desire
Best Seller: Sex for One




Spirited Loving Self Help Books on Women's Sexual Health


Spirited Loving Self Help Book: Becoming Orgasmic

Becoming Orgasmic: A Sexual Growth Program for Women
Julia Heiman and Joseph LoPiccolo

This revised and expanded edition of Becoming Orgasmic provides a program designed to help anyone overcome the myriad of obstacles to complete sexual satisfaction. This is a personal and sensitively written book designed to make you feel good about your sexuality and yourself. 
1987, Fireside





Spirited Loving Self Help Book: Fearless Sex

Fearless Sex: A Babe's Guide to Overcoming Your Romantic Obsessions and Getting the Sex Life You Deserve
Joy Davidson

Dr. Joy Davidson believes that desire is more than what you feel on the way to the bedroom - it's the very spark that ignites your life. Embracing your sexuality and erotic spirit is an art form - and learning to express yourself without getting stalled in self-defeating relationships is a practical, learnable skill. This book is your guide.  
2004, Fair Winds Press (2nd edition)





Spirited Loving Self Help Book: For Women Only

For Women Only: A Revolutionary Guide to Overcoming Sexual Dysfunction and Reclaiming Your Sex Life
Jennifer Berman and Laura Berman

Sisters Jennifer (a urologist) and Laura (a sex therapist) Berman point out that nearly half of all women in the US experience sexual problems at some point during their lifetime. In this helpful book they offer frank but personal discussion about the female sexual response. They describe their clinical patient assessment process, provide an updated anatomy lesson and offer practical suggestions for enhancing sexual pleasure. 
2001, Henry Holt





Spirited Loving Self Help Book: For Yourself

For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality
Lonnie Barbach

This book offers a practical program developed by an acclaimed sex therapist. It includes a detailed description of female sexual response, step-by-step exercises to gradually awaken dormant sexuality, clear explanations about sex and sexual response, and insights into the essential role of the emotions in sexual gratification. 
2000, Signet





Spirited Loving Self Help Book: Getting the Sex You Want

Getting the Sex You Want: A Woman’s Guide to Becoming Proud, Passionate, and Pleased in Bed
Sandra Leiblum and Judith Sachs

The authors begin with a description of women’s sexual experiences and move on to cover a wide range of sexual topics including how to enhance your sex life, biological/pharmaceutical remedies, restorative and cosmetic surgery, sex toys, masturbation, and meditative practices. The book helps women map their erotic journey through the life cycle from adolescence through older age. 
2002, Crown





Spirited Loving Self Help Book: The Good Vibrations Guide

The Good Vibrations Guide: The G-Spot
Cathy Winks

This book is a clear, informative and friendly companion, explaining the latest anatomical and physiological research on the G-spot (not a spot inside the vagina at all, but the urethral sponge in front of it). The book gives a practical guide to tips, techniques, and toys for stimulating the G-spot. Throughout, the author is careful to emphasize that while some women love G-spot pressure, others don’t get a lot out of it or actually find it uncomfortable. The focus is on finding out what you personally enjoy rather than setting yourself a new performance goal. 
1998, Down There Press





Spirited Loving Self Help Book: The Heart and Soul of Sex

The Heart and Soul of Sex: Making the ISIS Connection
Gina Ogden

Based on a landmark sex survey, researcher and sex therapist Ogden found "the language of spiritual experience comes closest to expressing the fullness of our sexual response, for it is the language of connection and ecstasy." The book guides the reader on a path to her sexual "center" where healing, ecstasy and transformation occur. Read an extensive review of this book»
2006, Trumpeter




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: The Hormone of Desire

The Hormone of Desire: The Truth About Testosterone, Sexuality, and Menopause
Susan Rako

Dr. Rako, a psychiatrist, suggests that gradually developing testosterone deficiency is a treatable condition that ignorance, fear, ideological resistance and sexual politics have prevented a medical community from dealing with. She advocates the prudent use of supplemental testosterone for women who need it and offers a thorough discussion of the uses, benefits and risks of testosterone therapy. 
1999, Three Rivers Press




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: The Interstitial Cystitis Survival Guide

The Interstitial Cystitis Survival Guide: Your Guide to the Latest Treatment Options and Coping Strategies
Robert Moldwin

IC is a chronic inflammatory condition of the urinary bladder that can have a devastating impact on quality of life. The disease may be debilitating and lead to feelings of helplessness and despair. Often misdiagnosed as a urinary tract infection or cystitis, patients are often incorrectly treated. This guide is designed to help the IC patient understand the process of proper diagnosis and empower readers to make sure they are getting the most appropriate treatment for their condition. 
2000, New Harbinger




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: The Mother's Guide to Sex

The Mother's Guide to Sex: Enjoying Your Sexuality Through All Stages of Motherhood
Anne Semans and Cathy Winks

Semans and Winks approach sex and motherhood from four angles: basic components of women's sexuality, sex and pregnancy (just before, during, and just after), sex as a parent, and raising sexually healthy children. The work is greatly enhanced by copious quotations from several hundred moms who shared experiences and tips via surveys the authors posted online. Married, single, heterosexual, and lesbian moms are all included, and often overlooked issues such as circumcision, disability, or having an intersexed child receive coverage.
2001, Three Rivers Press




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: The Multi-Orgasmic Woman

The Multi-Orgasmic Woman: Discover Your Full Desire, Pleasure, and Vitality
Mantak Chia and Rachel Carlton Abrams

For women who seek heightened spiritual consciousness with their extended and multiple orgasms, Chia and Abrams prescribe a series of meditations and exercises from the Chinese Taoist tradition. The authors' inclusive language speaks to all women, regardless of age, sexual orientation, relationship status, orgasm tendencies or level of experience with meditation. The good, basic information on general sexual health and wellness emphasizes holistic approaches to maintenance and treatment, and the primer on the fundamentals of chi (energy) provides a solid overview of the theoretical basis for the methods developed to cultivate and use this energy.
2006, Rodale Books




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: Private Pain

Private Pain: Its about Life, Not Just Sex . . . Understanding Vaginismus and Dyspareunia
Ditza Katz and Ross Tabisel

Addressing common female conditions which cause physical pain, emotional anguish and a sense of failure and sexual inadequacy, the book includes extensive explanations, real life stories of patients and partners and treatment options. This book has been a source of hope for many women. 
2002, Women’s Therapy Center




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: Reclaiming Desire

Reclaiming Desire: 4 Keys to Finding Your Lost Libido
Andrew Goldstein and Marianne Brandon

Low libido is the most common sexual disorder in American women, affecting an estimated 22-43% of the population. Goldstein, a gynecologist, and Brandon, a clinical psychologist, say the problem is more complex than most therapists realize. “The collection of factors that influences a woman’s sex drive is as unique as the woman herself.” The authors advocate a holistic approach that address four spheres of a woman’s life: physical health, emotional resilience, intellectual fulfillment and spiritual contentment. This book is a practical, open-ended discussion about women’s sexual desire. 
2004, Rodale Books





Spirited Loving Self Help Book: Satisfaction

Satisfaction: The Art of the Female Orgasm
Kim Cattrall and Mark Levinson

Pleasing color sketches and simple diagrams adorn the pages of Satisfaction by famed Sex and the City actor Kim Cattrall. Simple concepts--open communication, trust, love, and a consistent interest in pleasing one another--are the ingredients for an enriching and fulfilling sex life that can bring two people ever closer, according to the text. The facts speak for themselves: when pressed, women will confess in droves that they are sexually frustrated. It's tricky to communicate one's carnal desires to one's lover, yet both parties must be open to this type of ongoing discussion for the formula to work.
2003, Warner Books




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: Sex for One

Sex For One: The Joy of Self-Loving
Betty Dodson

For more than twenty years Betty Dodson has been dedicated to taking the shame out of masturbation, showing it to be a healthy form of sexual expression. With warmth and intelligence and informative line drawings, Dodson explains how anyone can learn to fully enjoy the pleasures of self-love, pointing out that masturbation is still the safest sex. 
1996, Crown




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: Sex Matters for Women

Sex Matters for Women: A Complete Guide to Taking Care of Your Sexual Self
Sallie Foley, Sally Kope and Dennis Sugrue

A comprehensive guide to all matters sexual for women, with chapters on the physiology of the reproductive system, the emotional complexities of sexuality and sexual relationships, body image, STDs, sexual trauma, painful sex, illness and disability, dealing with sexual problems including low desire, low arousal and orgasm difficulties. This is a wonderful one-volume resource. 
2002, Guilford Press




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: The Survivor's Guide to Sex

The Survivor's Guide to Sex: How to Have an Empowered Sex Life After Child Sexual Abuse
Staci Haines

Sex-positive and daring, this book will support any woman's pursuit of pleasure and confidence. Haines discusses common negative reactions among survivors such as withdrawal and dissociation and suggests ways to move on. Her chapters on "sexual response and anatomy" and "masturbation and self-healing" may come as a welcome revelation to women who have repressed their sexual feelings. 
1999, Cleis Press




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: Taking Charge of Menopause

The Taking Charge of Menopause Workbook
Robert Dosh, et. al.

This interactive workbook offers medical research including information on alternative medicine in a comprehensive guide to the causes, symptoms and treatments of menopause. Women are guided to assess their healthcare alternatives and develop a personalized plan for navigating through this challenging period. 
1997, New Harbinger




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: To Wake in Tears

To Wake in Tears: Understanding Interstitial Cystitis
Catherine Simone

This is the first book to look at IC from a holistic perspective claiming that IC is not just a bladder disease. Included are a multitude of practical, safe, helpful tips for IC patients to use to help themselves heal. This book is empowering and inspirational for IC sufferers. 
1998, IC Hope Limited




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: The V Book

The V Book: A Doctor’s Guide to Complete Vulvovaginal Health
Elizabeth Stewart and Paula Spencer

This doctor’s guide provides solid information in accessible language regarding vulvovaginal anatomy and functions, changes through the lifecycle, routine self-care, pelvic exams, bothersome symptoms and sexual disorders. According to the authors, “your private parts shouldn’t be private to you.” 
2002, Bantam




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: The Vulvodynia Survival Guide

The Vulvodynia Survival Guide: How to Overcome Painful Vaginal Symptoms and Enjoy an Active Lifestyle
Howard Glazer and Gae Rodke

This book is a very good source of general information about vulvodynia and the accompanying emotional distress. The book helps readers identify triggers, modify their diets to reduce symptoms, find knowledgeable medical help, learn how to reduce debilitating pain and renew their enjoyment of healthy sexual relations and normal daily activities. 
2002, New Harbinger




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: What Every Woman Needs to Know About Menopause

What Every Woman Needs to Know About Menopause: The Years Before, During and After
Mary Jane Minkin and Carol Wright

In a question and answer format the authors cycle through the premenopausal, menopausal and postmenopausal years separating effects on mind and body in order to provide differentiated responses. The book looks carefully at what estrogen replacement therapy can and cannot do and includes advice on other midlife medical issues. 
1997, Yale University Press




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: The Wisdom of Menopause

The Wisdom of Menopause: Creating Physical and Emotional Health and Healing During the Change
Christiane Northrup

According to Dr. Northrup, menopause often marks the beginning of a woman’s most sexually passionate, creatively inspired and professionally productive phase of life. Dr. Northrup specializes in using a mind-body approach to women’s health and believes with the right diet, attitude and supplements, women can actually look forward to a resurgence of energy and a revolutionary opportunity for personal growth. There is a thorough section on menopausal hormone changes. She addresses the hormone replacement therapy controversy and encourages women to avoid synthetic hormones and instead consider “bioidentical” hormones such as estradiol, estrone and estriol. 
2003, Bantam




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: Women's Sexualities

Women’s Sexualities: Generations of Women Share Intimate Secrets of Sexual Self-Acceptance
Carol Ellison

Based on in-depth interviews with a hundred women and a survey which polled over twenty-six hundred women, Dr. Ellison describes patterns which she was able to determine that help lead women to positive sexual growth. Ellison covers the factors that influence sexual development such as body awareness, sexual attitudes and values and early lessons about love, sexuality and sexual boundaries. The book offers women encouragement and practical guidance for achieving sexual self-acceptance. 
2000, New Harbinger




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: Women's Sexuality across the Life Span

Women's Sexuality across the Life Span: Challenging Myths, Creating Meanings
Judith C. Daniluk

This important book investigates how women come by, and live out, their sexual sense of themselves from childhood to old age. It offers useful suggestions for developing skills for sexual self-definition at every age and stage of development. Exercises include letter-writing and drawing to confront feelings, psycho-drama and body sculpting to exorcise demons, guided fantasy to activate disowned body parts, and self-affirmations to help women re-occupy their bodies.  
2003, The Guilford Press




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: Women Who Love Sex

Women Who Love Sex: An Inquiry into the Expanding Spirit of Women’s Erotic Experience
Gina Ogden

This intelligent and readable book reframes conventional ideas about how women experience sexual relationship. Based on original research with women whose stories inform each chapter, it questions male-centered definitions of sexual desire and performance. 
1999, Womanspirit Press




Spirited Loving Self Help Book: Yoga and the Wisdom of Menopause

Yoga and the Wisdom of Menopause : A Guide to Physical, Emotional and Spiritual Health at Midlife and Beyond
Suza Francina

Francina examines the role yoga can play in promoting physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being in the face of dramatic hormonal changes, the potential for and onset of osteoporosis, and even the experience (and possible avoidance) of cancer and heart disease. The book offers a compact but well-rounded practice that even a new-comer can easily begin exploring. 
2003, HCI

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